Saturday, August 13, 2011

OMG! crush[boy]help! [answer now]?

Well this is cutee :) anyways, yes I totally understand this situation, PERSONAL EXPERIENCE. But if you were his friend before, then that means that he actually likes you as a friend. Dont be so worried about screwing things up, because then you will screw things up. I think when you sit by him at lunch, make a friendly converstaion strike up like if you are talking say something like, "Dont you agree?" or something like that. Then ease your way into talking to him from there! For example, let's say you were talking about a new song. "That song is so great! Dont you agree?" And then he would say "yes" or "no". From there you could ease into another conversation. For me, I've never really been shy but my friends were always really shy, and there's nothing wrong with it. Just think of this old saying : "Dont let the fear of striking out, keep you from playing the game". Dont be so afraid you'll mess up, that you dont even talk to him! If you miss his friendship, and he's not making a move towards getting back to it, then you have to, and if you were friends before, I promise, you wont regret it. Another way to start a conversation might be, "So are you thinking about coming back to summer camp this year?" After that, you can start a conversation on past memories you have had together and this might stike up some feelings in both of you for a friendship again. Sit by him in cl, and ask him if you don't understand something. I'm not talking any major conversation, but you've got to start somewhere. And think of it this way: Maybe, he's just like you. Maybe he wants to talk to you and become your friend again, but is too shy to do it because he might have a tiny crush on you also! :) Just remember, play it cool, and dont push for it too hard. Let it come naturally, and I think everything will work out for ya. Good luck!

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